Vivek Murthy, leaving office this month after two terms as US Surgeon General, released a document today he calls a Parting Prescription for America. It has no dosing table. Its argument is that community has eroded, that technology has helped erode it by substituting screens for faces, and that the choice in front of the country is between disconnection and turning toward one another. His closing request is two words: choose community. It is the most evidence-based prescription a Surgeon General has written in years, and nobody can sell it to you.
What stands behind it. This is not a mood piece. In 2023 the same office issued a formal advisory calling loneliness and isolation an epidemic, and the research it rests on is among the strongest in all of health. A 2010 meta-analysis in PLOS Medicine (Holt-Lunstad and colleagues, 148 studies, more than 300,000 people) found that people with stronger social relationships had about a 50% greater likelihood of survival over the study periods — an effect comparable in size to quitting smoking. The Harvard Study of Adult Development, now in its ninth decade, keeps finding that the quality of relationships predicts health in later life better than wealth, fame or cholesterol. All observational, all consistent, all pointing the same way.
Here is why you have heard a thousand podcasts about NAD+ and almost none about this: there is no business model. You cannot patent dinner with friends. You cannot charge a subscription for a neighbor. A Surgeon General can write it down because the office has no product line. Read it that way — as the thing the market cannot say, said by someone with nothing to sell.
I ask a question in my practice that stops people: who did you spend time with this week who is not in a longevity forum? The silences are long. The patients with the most elaborate protocols are often the most isolated, and their inflammatory markers know it before they do. Murthy is prescribing what I prescribe most and what gets filled least.
Why it matters to a recovering optimizer. The longevity trap is lonely by design. Eating windows close before dinner parties start; morning routines run too long for breakfast with anyone; evenings go to research. The fundamental with the strongest mortality evidence is the one the protocol crowds out. A Surgeon General's prescription will not change that for you. But it is useful to have it in writing, from the top of the public-health system, that the thing you keep deprioritizing is the thing that matters most.
Stop optimizing alone. Make one plan this week that cannot happen without another person.